How to Choose an Epitaph for Your Loved One's Headstone
Choosing an epitaph for your loved one's headstone is a big responsibility, and you shouldn't feel rushed into making a choice. Remember that the headstone will last for a long time, and don't commit to an epitaph you're not sure about. There's no right or wrong when it comes to your choice, but short quotes, sayings and verses tend to be the most popular. If you need some inspiration, take a look at the suggestions below.
1. Bible verses
Bible verses are a popular and traditional choice for headstone inscriptions. They're ideal if your loved one was religious or found comfort in the Bible. You could choose a verse that relates to your relative going to heaven, such as "Well done, good and faithful servant" (Matthew 25:21). Alternatively, you could choose a verse that relates to the deceased more specifically. For example, if your loved one worked as a doctor or nurse, you might choose a verse that relates to that profession.
2. Quotes
Short quotes are another popular choice for headstones, and they're perfect if you're looking for a non-religious option. You could choose a saying that your relative loved to use, or find a quote that you think represents them well. The quote doesn't need to be complicated, and you could choose something simple. Shorter quotes are perfect for smaller headstones and can be more impactful than longer sayings.
3. Poetry
Was your loved one a fan of poetry during their lifetime? Or was there a poetry reading at their funeral service that seemed particularly fitting? If so, choosing a line of poetry for their epitaph could be a good option. Take some time to peruse collections of poetry and find one that resonates with you. If the poem isn't too long, you could use the whole thing as an epitaph. If that won't fit, select a line or two instead.
4. Song lyrics
Although not as traditional, song lyrics are growing in popularity when it comes to choosing an epitaph. Using a line from a song that your relative loved can make the epitaph feel more personal to them and often works well for those who weren't religious. If you played music at the funeral, take some time to read the lyrics of the songs played and identify any lines that seem fitting.
Choosing the right epitaph takes time, and it's important not to rush the process. Take time to consider quotes, verses, song lyrics and poems that feel meaningful to your and your family. For more information regarding headstones, contact a funeral home.
