The Three Questions You Should Ask Funeral Directors Before Hiring Them
Funerals are some of the toughest and most emotionally involved events you will ever have to organise. There is a lot of pressure to get it exactly right, otherwise, the lasting memory of the event will not be one of a graceful farewell but a gigantic mess. Because of this risk, funeral directors are an essential part of the funeral organisation, and they should be one of the very first people you contact about the day. But how do you know which funeral director is right for you? Here are three questions that will help you narrow down your selections.
What Locations Do They Have Available?
Choosing where the funeral is held is very important because you want it to be somewhere classy and elegant but not too flashy. Funeral directors often have a couple of different venues available for hosting, depending on your needs. Some will have a more overt religious setting (like a chapel) and some will be totally neutral. When you have narrowed down your choice of funeral directors a little bit, you can begin asking to tour the locations to see them in person. Never book a venue or a funeral director without first visiting the actual location. If you don't know what you want, then just ask to see their whole catalogue of places.
What Is Their Hosting Capacity?
Funerals vary in size dramatically, from just a few close friends and family to dozens of extended relatives and work colleagues. You will have a good understanding of just how many guests you expect, and you should have this number in your mind when organising the funeral. Size of the crowd does not just determine which locations you can use but how many speakers, technical equipment, flyers, leaflets and ushers you will need. Some funeral homes cannot cater to larger funerals, which is why it is important to bring this up with potential funeral directors.
Who Do They Use For Catering Services?
After a funeral, most families and close friends will convene at a wake that is often organised by the same funeral director. Food and drink are plentiful at a wake as most people will have been too nervous or sad to eat before a funeral and many will wish to drown their sorrows just a little bit. Choosing a good menu is essential in uplifting the mood and allowing people to start their recovery. Perhaps you could even add a few favourite dishes of the deceased to honour their memory a little bit more. Always check the catering options before booking a funeral director.
For more information, speak with a funeral director near you.
